I consider myself quite a spiritual person, so why am I saying something that folks might find spiritually outrageous? Most of us are aware of the history of black slavery in America and the Holocaust in Europe but something else is happening right now. Did you know that young black women have about double the death rate from breast cancer as white women? Continue reading Is God Racist and Anti-Semitic? If So, Can We Fight Back by Ditching Our Bras?
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Christmas Gifts for an Unfaithful Ex 2023
This year’s Christmas List of gifts for a cheating ex contain a few unusual vintage items, courtesy of my makeup historian friend, Kristine Ursua. Continue reading Christmas Gifts for an Unfaithful Ex 2023
October 13 is No Bra Day
Did you know that on October 13 every year women worldwide are encouraged to go braless to promote breast cancer awareness? Continue reading October 13 is No Bra Day
Sparring with ChatGPT on Bras and Cancer
Bare Facts or a Bare-Faced Lie?
Numerous studies support a strong link between bras and breast cancer. Yet mainstream search engines focus on a flawed 2014 study that did not show a connection and insist that no credible evidence exists showing otherwise. What about the much-vaunted new AI tool, available in free and paid versions, ChatGPT, that everyone is raving about to solve their research and copy writing needs? Continue reading Sparring with ChatGPT on Bras and Cancer
If Breaking Up with Your Bra Is Hard to Do…
In many indigenous cultures in Africa and South America, it is generally acceptable for both men and women to go without clothing that covers the torso. Yet in the West, women going topless in public might face prosecution for indecent exposure. William J. Mayo MD, one of the founders of the Mayo Clinic, wrote in the article “Susceptibility to Cancer,” published in the 1931 Annals of Surgery, that “Cancer of the breast occurs largely among civilized women. In those countries where breasts are allowed to be exposed, that is, are not compressed or irritated by clothing, it is rare.” Continue reading If Breaking Up with Your Bra Is Hard to Do…
Busting Myth-Buster Myths: Bras and Cancer According to Google
If you want to see the online censorship of health issues in action, look no further than the link between bras and breast cancer.
Here’s the top result on Google:
“There is no credible research showing a link between wearing, or not wearing, a bra and developing breast cancer. Continue reading Busting Myth-Buster Myths: Bras and Cancer According to Google
Chocolate Cures Everything?
As a lifelong chocoholic, I’m always heartened by tales of the healing power of chocolate. Continue reading Chocolate Cures Everything?
How Humor Boosts Confidence
Unattractive. Old. Not enough. How many of us have felt like that? I certainly have. Finding out the man I’d believed to be my soul mate and partner for life was in love with a girl almost the same age as our son shattered my confidence. Continue reading How Humor Boosts Confidence
Are Infidelity Surveys Worthless?
So say you’re having a secret affair, squeezed into your busy schedule as you juggle your family life with illicit interludes. What would you rather be doing—having torrid sex with your lover or filling out a survey about it? You could always do the survey during family time—just make sure that your spouse isn’t looking over your shoulder. Continue reading Are Infidelity Surveys Worthless?
Glenda Green Didn’t Want to Read My Book yet Liked It!
The comedy self-help memoir I’ve just had published, “My Wild Ride: How to Thrive After Breast Cancer and Infidelity,” references almost 70 books, including one of the most quoted books in modern spiritual literature, the bestseller “Love without End” by Glenda Green. Continue reading Glenda Green Didn’t Want to Read My Book yet Liked It!
How a Farting Goat Got Me on Live TV
Gomer the Gassy Goat got me an invite to be a host on a live TV network. How did that happen? Well, it’s a bit of a shaggy dog, or maybe I should say shaggy goat, story. Continue reading How a Farting Goat Got Me on Live TV
Christmas Gifts for an Unfaithful Ex 2022
This year’s gifts are hypocritical, vulgar, inconsistent with my mission message and politically incorrect. But as I once heard Love Without End author Glenda Green say, “politically correct” is always political and rarely correct. Yes, I know that the mantra of my comic self-help book, Adulterer’s Wife: How to Thrive Whether You Stay or Not, is that the best revenge is to get past the need for it, but at least for my annual Christmas gift list, humor trumps platitudes. Continue reading Christmas Gifts for an Unfaithful Ex 2022
Success versus Purpose
A recent LinkedIn post by Dr. Manoj Krishna, founder of the Human Wisdom Project, asking the question, “What does success mean to you—is it wealth, fame or something else?” got me thinking. Continue reading Success versus Purpose
Ugly Lady Bares All at Halloween
It took some soul-searching to publish this photograph, but here I am chemo-bald, dressed as a hairless red devil to celebrate Halloween 2014. It was the one and only time I went out in public without a wig. Continue reading Ugly Lady Bares All at Halloween
Are Gender Affirming Practices Carcinogenic?
As a two-time breast cancer survivor and BBC-trained journalist, I have done a significant amount of research into the causes of cancer. My self-help memoir, My Wild Ride: How to Thrive After Breast Cancer and Infidelity, not only includes cartoons and humor, but also a bibliography referencing nearly 70 books and more than 100 articles and studies. Continue reading Are Gender Affirming Practices Carcinogenic?
Breast Cancer: Humor as Healing
I had a motto while dealing with both breast cancer and an unfaithful husband: “If you don’t laugh, you’ll cry.” I tried to find absurd humor in every situation I was faced with and wanted to avoid the cancer victim mentality. I’m a two-time breast cancer survivor with a mutated BRCA gene that makes me more susceptible to cancer. Continue reading Breast Cancer: Humor as Healing
Roller Coaster Ride with CJ Grace: Review by Paul Janes-Brown
My Wild Ride: How to Thrive After Breast Cancer and Infidelity is the latest book by CJ Grace. Her first, Adulterer’s Wife: How to Thrive Whether You Stay or Not, covered infidelity issues. My Wild Ride is an in-depth, how-to guide, thoroughly researched, filled with anecdotes and generously dosed with Ms. Grace’s sardonic, Pythonesque humor. Continue reading Roller Coaster Ride with CJ Grace: Review by Paul Janes-Brown
Breast Implant Illness? It’s All in Your Head, You Neurotic Woman!
Sometimes industry-funded medical studies are so biased and their outrageous conclusions are so bad that they’re good, at least in a Monty Python kind of way. Continue reading Breast Implant Illness? It’s All in Your Head, You Neurotic Woman!
If You Don’t Laugh, You’re Gonna Cry
Here I am chemo-bald. I cannot compete with that famous photograph of Joan Lunden battling breast cancer on the cover of the October 2014 edition People magazine. The TV host looks stunning with or without hair. I do not, so this hairless cartoon of me will have to suffice. Continue reading If You Don’t Laugh, You’re Gonna Cry
Boomer Chick’s Guide to Online Dating: Guest Blog
CJ: I have recently become friends with a wonderful multi-talented lady: Angela Schutz, author, life coach, career counselor and a youthful septuagenarian with a great sense of humor. She has written a online dating book that might save you heartache and make you laugh. I asked her to write a blog about it for my website and she graciously agreed to do one. Continue reading Boomer Chick’s Guide to Online Dating: Guest Blog